never reminisce.

every now and a again i go through the archive of my high school experience aka my facebook photos.

they are a nice/funny/sad/why? reminder of how much fun i've had these past 3andahalf years.

this time was different though.

i REALLY looked at certain photographs today;; as if i had Stassi's specs on [=D]

here are some of my faves for no particular reason besides them being cool-looking:::

the problem with reminiscing is when you come across pics such as

or this

these kinds of pics[pics with exes] are awful because they show the good times and not the cry-your-eyes-out times. not that i cried my eyes out.

if you're anything like me, you start thinking about what was happening when that photo was taken and how you felt then.

those ugly thoughts then lead to other fun, not-photographed fun times. And those nasty thoughts then lead to "I don't even think we really needed to break up" or "I really miss him"

REPULSIVE.

Then you start to think about why you broke up/ why things changed.

You then go to the facebook page of the main reason to make sure they aren't having fun [aka no fun photos]

If they are having fun, or worse, if they have fun wall posts from your ex, OR even worse, if they are having fun WITH your ex, your blood boils.

If they aren't having fun, you feel satisfied and may think something along the lines of "That's what you get bxtch"

then there are pics like

that make you extremely happy that you have the friends you do.

but you don't need to reminisce about that because you always have those cool cats around.

all-in-all; don't reminisce, leave old photos in the past and focus on taking new ones that you can look back on in two weeks and say "Gosh, I miss him"